This was an educational process for me to understand clinical trials and where it might fit into my course of treatment. I think my journey may help you or if you ever need to help someone else go through the process.
Why do I personally want the best care? Well, I want to go back to Disney with this crazy family, as adults, and with their families, and be able to go to a Disney breakfast! And to create lots of other memories as well!
I really like this article too – as it helps one to understand if you are not asked to weigh in on treatment plans – what is helpful to say. I know this is about grief. It also holds true for a serious illness.
https://www.nytimes.com/2019/02/14/smarter-living/what-to-say-and-what-not-to-say-to-someone-whos-grieving.html